Last Thursday I got word that my maternal grandmother passed away. As I'm not one for sentimental stuff, especially on the blog, I'll leave that to my sister (sorry if you don't have access). But to be terse, my grandmother was 93 and lived a great life that was full of family, friends, and tons of travel. I should only be as lucky. She'd been a widow for nearly 30 years and legally blind for the past 20 of them. If this happens to me, I'm 100% positive I would not be as complaint-free as this dear woman was.
I was fortunate to be able to go to Utah for the funeral. Having a husband who is totally supportive of this, even if it means he's a single dad for five days, meant the world to me. It was such a great opportunity to spend with my entire family (yep, even Derek made it down from AK).
It was a busy time, filled with cleaning, organizing, research....all of it done by my parents and aunt and uncle. And done while I got to sleep alone in my own bed and wake up when my body told me. Yes, we were busy, but it was good busy, and I didn't have to worry about whether Rhett would be okay if he missed his nap. Or if he would be miserable because we had to spend all day in the car (remember, my parents moved to beyond Park City, so our daily or twice-daily trips to Salt Lake took some time).
I even got to hang out with good friends and just be Erin again, not mom. I'm saddened by how happy this made me. Of course, when I finally got home late Wednesday, I was eagerly awaiting the opportunity to kiss my boys. Rhett, however, quickly dispelled my mirth the next morning about whining incessantly about wanting cereal for breakfast ("But Rhett, it's not a day that starts with S! NO cereal!")
The weather mostly cooperated. My final two days in Utah even contained some snow and Maryland-like rains, but hey, it's FAR better than the humidity to which I returned on Wednesday.
The only bad part (note: I didn't say sad part) of the trip was when my conscientiously-packed carry-on bag was forced to be checked at the gate, causing me great distress at the thought of having to wait that extra 45 minutes for my bag. Can I just say that I hate airlines? (Except for Frontier; they had freshly-baked cookies.) All of that was (nearly) forgotten when who should appear on my second leg home? Camie, my dear friend and former roommate. Our chatting made the four-hour flight speed by.
And the sad part of the trip was knowing that it was my grandmother's passing that had to bring to pass the family reunion. But I'm pretty sure she was watching us from heaven with her dear husband, and happy to see us with her own eyes.
This is a shot of my grandparents and their family (minus my uncle who was yet to join our group when this picture was taken.)
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i think most of us moms would feel good and happy as you did on your little mommy-free trip. i know i would.
ReplyDeletethat picture is so cool. what a groovy looking group. do you know when and where that was taken? mom was probably just a few years older than us. funny, huh?
and, sorry, but i totally agree with rhett - i would whine and cry if i didn't get cereal for breakfast either. and are you kidding me? he only gets cereal on saturday or sundays? even good cereals like oatmeal and bran-flakes and cheerios? poor kid. :) but i do know what you mean - reality usually comes back pretty loud and quickly!
Even though it was for a funeral, it was good to see you! And I really think your grandma went the best way. I hope I'm that lucky! She was such a great lady, the little I knew of her! So sweet.
ReplyDeleteGlad you got to enjoy some "you" time. Don't ever feel bad about that!
I think the hardest part about leaving your kids is COMING BACK....it's just surreal for a few days, which is SOOOOOO odd, but that's always how I feel when I return. Bad?!
ReplyDeleteYes, Phyllis was a LOVELY woman, what little I know of her, and although it's still a LOSS, it's also a BLESSING to have the knowledge we do that all is right. I'm sure the reunion was sweet and she was tickled pink to have you all together to reminisce and reunite.
LOVE LOVE material girls, and I don't even own a sewing machine, it's the CUTEST for sure. Glad you had some girl time, and HAPPY day to have a friend on a flight. SO LUCKY.
WELCOME BACK Rhett's mommy!!! ;)
OH....AND.....I forgive you for laughing at me puking......;) Kidding. I just felt sorry for anyone who saw and realized what was happening!
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